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Sunday, June 17, 2018

Happy Father's Day 2018


Father's Day for me is very emotional since my Dad passed away in 2004. I cannot believe it will be 14 years this September that he is gone. It does not seem like that long at all. On days like today, I really remember all the good times with him. He had a heart condition, so we were lucky to have him as long as we did. My dad was a shoe repairmen, as you can see from one of the photos, and that was quite an art. A skill that not many have today. He would make a really run down pair of shoes look completely new. His shop was the kind people went in and socialized along with getting their shoes repaired. Being an only child, we were very close which was great. You only have one father, and if you are lucky enough to have a great one like I did, be sure to cherish them today and everyday. I read an interesting post about What Father's Day Means When You Never Had a Father, the author really makes you smile in the end. Happy Father's Day to all the Dad's out there, as well as my own!

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Thursday, September 21, 2017

Throwback Thursday "Tribute to Dad"


A tribute today for my Dad, who passed on this day in 2004. I cannot believe it is 13 years he is gone. I know they say time heals all wounds, but the passing of any parent never goes away. I miss him dearly, and this is one of my favorite photos of him when he was quite young. He became a father later in life, at 50, but that is more common today. He had a great sense of humor, and loved to cook on our outdoor grill in the summer months. I miss so much about him, but mostly just being able to chat about life. I know he is with me every day in spirit, and of course, in my heart.


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Sunday, June 18, 2017

Happy Father's Day 2017


The photo above is myself and my Dad at one of my birthdays. We were both not really fans of getting our picture taken, but I am glad I have this one. My Dad passed away in 2004, it seems like just a few months ago. My parents had me later in life, and I had a really great childhood. My Dad was a big tease, and loved to joke around with people. He loved to dress well, and clothes really loved him. I miss him every day, I miss his voice and his laughter. Father' Day has now become a day for me to remember him even more, and the wonderful memories of the time we had together. He wasn't perfect, no one is, but he was a great Dad and I know I am who I am because of him. 

For those who still have their Dads today, enjoy them with all your heart. Spoil them rotten, and make sure they know they are loved. We would all like to think we have them forever, but forever isn't in the cards. I do feel mine is with me every day, but what I wouldn't give for just one more hug. 

My Dad in the funky sunglasses working at a local gas station with 2 handsome men and a cool car! 


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Sunday, June 19, 2016

Honoring Dad This Father's Day


With this Sunday being Father's Day, I thought my Dad should have a proper post honoring him. He passed away in 2004, way before I started this blog, but I know he would have loved it! My Dad was a very handsome guy, and he loved to dress. He never even finished school, only went to the 8th grade, but had his own business, built a new home for his family and did well for himself. 

I love this picture! He just looks so classy here. I still have the boxes with his Stetson hats in them, and some of his favorite ties, like the one he wore when he married my Mom. My Dad worked in a gas station before he opened his shoe repair business, and he loved all the great cars he got to see.   
I am so thrilled I have these photos, but I wish I had more of them. They are from another era, and are so fun to enjoy in 2015. My Dad is the guy standing in the uniform. They wore uniforms in those days when they were gas station attendants! 

My Dad's shoe repair shop in our hometown, which he ran for many, many years  

My Dad's shop was the social place to be in town. It was kind of like the old-fashioned barber shops, folks stood around and chatted with him while he repaired their shoes. Now, if I were a bit older, I'd say he should have served some espresso and biscotti to his customers! When I walk around New York City, I am so glad to see many shoe repair shops still in business because they are such a dying breed. I used to go to his shop sometimes after school, instead of going home, and when I walked it, that smell of glue for the shoes was just so familiar. I loved being there to watch him work his magic, he made old shoes look brand new like no one else could.  



My Dad wrote on the back of this photo, which I love when I find that, this photo was from 1963, and his barber is in the middle along with another shopkeeper who worked next door to my Dad's shop. 
My Dad visiting our home as it was being built. He was very proud of his house, and visited daily to make sure everything was running smoothly.  
One of my many photos with my Dad, taken by my Mom, on one of my birthdays. My Dad loved to joke with people, tease them, in the nicest way possible. I cannot believe he will be gone 11 years this year, it doesn't seem that long at all. My Dad was a father late in life, but he gave me everything I needed. My Mom and he were really life partners, and both said they would have never married if it wasn't to each other. I miss my Father very much, and I am so glad for the wonderful memories he gave me. The big band music blaring through the house, New York Yankees games on the television, grilling outside in the summer months, enjoying great Italian food, watching the Food Network, trying new things like Chai tea, and eating ice cream right out of the container!  

I hope you all have a wonderful Father's Day with your special guy this year. Spoil them rotten while you have them, as once they are gone, you can then look back and smile. I am so proud to be my Dad's daughter, and I strive everyday to continue to make him proud and live up to his wonderful legacy. 

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Friday, May 13, 2016

The Dying Craft of the Cobbler

As many of my regular readers know, my Dad owned a Shoe Repair Shop in my hometown. It was easily open for 50 years, not sure when he opened it exactly, but closed in 2000 due to his health. I just came across an article from DNA Info NY about the Dying Craft of Cobblers, which you can read HERE. It made me want to find out a bit more about this craft my Father did so well, and the fact we may not be seeing too many more of them in the future.  
I can't help take photos of Shoe Repair Shops when in New York City. I don't like to go in, as it brings back too many memories and I get a bit emotional. The glue smell when you walk in starts it immediately!  


My Dad learned the craft from another cobbler, and then bought his shop. I am not sure if it was from the prior owner or not. When I looked on the website of the Shoe Service Institute of America, it says that is the only way to learn this trade is apprentice with a current cobbler. 

The history of shoe repair is quite interesting. The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS) figures indicated that shoe repair workers held approximately one-half of the approximately 21,000 jobs in the leather goods industry at the end of the twentieth century. Until advancement made in the 20th century, shoes were very expensive and hard to make, sometimes taking a cobbler almost a whole day to make one pair. It seemed more economical to have your shoes repaired than buy new ones. 

Shoe Repair can be tracked all the way to the Middle Ages, but World War II (1939-1945) had a negative impact on the craft. Because of changing shoe styles, and to keep in fashion, shoes were made much cheaper, which allowed customers to purchase new, rather than repair the old pair.  
My Dad's shop did very good business for a long time. In the end, he worked with lots of men who had good shoes for repair than purchasing new ones. The sad thing is, today, many of the expensive shoes cannot be repaired. I have many pairs which I paid a decent amount of money for, and my Dad couldn't fix because they were plastic on the bottom. 
I love these vintage ads from my Dad's shop. He liked to keep things, thank goodness, and it's so fun to have them. As you can imagine from the article in DNA info NY, the rising costs of rents and keeping up a shop forces many to close down. I always loved the fact that I would pass one while in the city, it would make me smile, I hope some can still survive.  

Before you ask, yes, I do have the stamper to go with this Lucky 7 club card!  
I love this photo of my Dad working. I feel so lucky to have it, and his work was amazing. He made shoes look brand spankin' new. He was an exceptional craftsman.  
Some funny notes about my Dad's shop. He had no phone. He felt it wasn't necessary. My Mom would have to call the shop next door if she needed him for something! He never took people's names for the shoes or phone numbers. He expected them to come back on their own the following week to pick up their shoes. Needless to say, when we emptied the shop when he closed, there were lots of shoes left from customers who never came back. The majority of time it did work, and that was all that mattered to him. 

As you can see, from this photo of my Dad older in the shop, not much changed. It was also called one of the cleanest shoe repair shops ever! My Dad was very meticulous about everything. I think he really loved what he did, and that is why it showed in the craft he choose as his profession.

Computer technology for insole replacement began in late 1999 which helped create more demand for shoe repair. The method employs a computerized fitting system, which utilizes a computerized scanner to record sole measurements, including pressure points where the footstep makes the heaviest contact with the ground. The technology enabled shoe repair personnel to fit custom insoles easily through the use of the digital measuring system, at a cost of under $50 per pair.


When you think about it, shoe repair is a very green process. You keep your shoes and wear them until they cannot be fixed any longer. The Shoe Service of America website talks a bit about getting into the profession. I really hope this craft can be kept alive and well, for future generations. It is the type of work you can be very proud of, once you learn the art of it. I think after writing this post, the next time I am in the city, I will stroll in a Shoe Repair shop I come across. It will give me such a warmth inside, thinking of my Dad, and all the wonderful memories that we shared. 

Have you ever used a Shoe Repairman? Is there one in your hometown? 

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Thursday, November 5, 2015

Throwback Thursday "Pleasure Beach"


This very cool photo, with my Dad on the left, is from Pleasure Beach in Bridgport, Connecticut. My Dad went there to work for General Electric. The year was 1944, and I can't help say how much the guy to the right looks like Prince Charles! Or is it me? I just looked up Pleasure Beach, and their website says they re-opened June 28, 2014 after being closed for 2 decades! My Dad didn't stay there very long, he really wanted to have his own business, and I think was a bit homesick too! I just love this photo, and am so lucky to still have it in my possession! 

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Thursday, March 5, 2015

Throwback Thursday "A 1941 Cadillac"

A very fabulous photo from my family archives. This photo just oozes cool to me. I really love the cars from the 1940's and 1950's. They just had such style and class, don't you think? This car is a 1941 Cadillac, which at the time, cost $1,495.00. This was a local gas station in my hometown, and the attendant loved taking photos with the gorgeous cars that stopped by. For my newer readers, my parents had me much later in life. The handsome attendant is my Dad! I have been just watching the Italian Americans on PBS, and I must say, feel bad that neither of my parents can enjoy such an interesting documentary. It is available to watch on the PBS website which I think is just wonderful. If you are of Italian heritage, it is a must see!  

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Sunday, June 15, 2014

Happy Father's Day 2014



Father's Day for me is very emotional since my Dad passed away in 2004. I cannot believe it will be 10 years this September that he is gone. It does not seem like that long at all. On days like today, I really remember all the good times with him. He had a heart condition, so we were lucky to have him as long as we did. My dad was a shoe repairmen, as you can see from one of the photos, and that was quite an art. A skill that not many have today. He would make a really run down pair of shoes look completely new. His shop was the kind people went in and socialized along with getting their shoes repaired. He is so missed by my Mom and me. Being an only child, we were very close which was great. You only have one father, and if you are lucky enough to have a great one like I did, be sure to cherish them today and everyday. I read an interesting post about What Father's Day Means When You Never Had a Father, the author really makes you smile in the end. Happy Father's Day to all the Dad's out there, as well as my own!





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Sunday, June 16, 2013

Happy Father's Day 2013


Father's Day for me is very emotional since my Dad passed away in 2004. I thought a collage would be nice and yes the little one with him is me. On days like today, I really remember all the good times with him. He had a heart condition, so we were lucky to have him as long as we did. My dad was a shoe repairmen, as you can see from one of the photos, and that was quite an art. A skill that not many have today. He would make a really run down pair of shoes look completely new. His shop was the kind people went in and socialized along with getting their shoes repaired. He is so missed by my mom and me. Being an only child, we were very close which was great. You only have one father, and if you are lucky enough to have a great one like I did, be sure to cherish them today. Spoil them like crazy. You will never regret it.



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